I KNOW IT IS LONG BUT PLZ GIVE ME HONEST ANSWERS & I'LL GIVE YOU 10 PTS & ANSWER ANY QUESTIONS YOU HAVE!!!!?

Well can't tell you if he is going to come or not. But maybe I could help you some anyway! I am a mom of 4. 2 teenage boys, 1 teenage daughter 18 & 8 year old daughter. Now a few of my thoughts. I know my oldest son 17 wouldn't be threaten by meeting a mom, but my other son would. As you said he is bipolar but more importantly low self esteem. You weren't wrong intelling him first of all honesty is always best. But I think I would have expressed my concerns to your mom 1st as to what he was like. I could see the pressure it would put on him. Clearly you are old enough to date. So maybe she could have went and watched you guys from a distance if she was concerned for your safety. You could of had your first meeting with him alone & him not have the pressure of living up to your standards & your moms on the first date. Meeting your mom on a first date would probably not have sounded so pushy(pressured) if you guys already new each other & hung out. Like at school church etc. Having a friendship on FB is much easier because you aren't face to face to judge each other on looks expression or otherwise. Alot of people who are normally very shy in person have wonderful self confidence behind a keyboard. Unfortunately your generation has lost alot of the joy that comes with actually physical interaction (not referring to sex) now I think you teens have a hard time once you meet or are actually together because when you text or talk on FB you can build a person up to be what you want Because everyone reads things differently you might see it one way & them another. Facial expression and gestures say alot about what a person is feeling. You sound like a great girl with a good head on your shoulders. So if he doesn't show it would be his loss & your gain because if he bails for that he wasn't in it for the right reasons. And maybe your mom would be willing to step back a little if you talk to her. Sounds like she really cares. And I am sure she is only trying to look out for you. I'm probably not like alot of moms I am very open about everything & so are my kid sex drinking drugs etc. Because it's all out there. So I try not to shelter them I try to teach them to make smart decision through my teaching and gods. My biggest thing is also to tell th why they shouldn't do certain things not just don't do it because I said so. My mistakes & my husbands have helped them alot. ( you know the ones where we didn't want to listen to our parents b/c they didn't know Anything) best of luck& I will pray that it goes well for You!!! : )